It is my goal to take my wife to New York City one day. It has been her dream to go there since she was a little girl and I want to make sure she goes. Now let me make it perfectly clear, we are not destitute! We are able to pay our bills on time and our little family never goes without. However, at the end of the day, there never seems to be any extra. She never complains, but I know she really wants to go.