Hello Thank you for stoping and taking the time to read this.
I am trying to get a little help to go see my best friend Jess I will share how we met I hope you do not get bord from reading.
I met Jess about 15 years ago when this on line game that had come out for peolpe to play it was then when we clicked and called one another besties and had been best friend's and would call one another and that got a bit expensive as I lived in Texas and she lived in Australia. We then got skype and started chating there.
We had met some one on there who we both end up having feelings for I was dating this person on the game and we would talk to them on the phone the both of us would. They sounded like a guy and they showed us photos that were a guy. The person I was dating there had asked me if I would come out there to be with them as we had been dating for a long time and would talk on the phone all the time. I end up telling my best friend about it and she was so happy for me and said if that is want I want and if that makes me happy go for it so I did and went out there to the state they were in.
I never expected to happen with what I went through out there ever in my life. When I got to the state a women picked me up and had said that the person I was dating on the game was not able to pick me up they were stuck at work and I was like ok. Then they told me that they were snowed in on the Mountain and could not make it down. I was um ok. They would leave to go to the store and say that if the phone rings you can pick it up and may be him... I was ok. Then like 5 or 10 mins later it was "him calling me" I was sad and was like why cant you come here you asked me to come. They also gave me an excuse. After a few days of being there I started putting things together this person only called me when she left the house and only when I deside to go to bed. I was  well now I get it why he has not come its her and it was her the hole time she would not a mite it. I left as soon as I could get a plain back to Texas. While I was there they had got on line on the name I was dating there and That throw  me off also a little bit but then I know when it come to the phone calles and things like that it was little things and things that did not add up. 
When I got back to Texas I try to tell my best friend what happen and she called me a lair and I was being jealous and possessive and why would I say it was a girl. I was Furious from how she was treating me and I was like why are you being like that you are my best friend. She had told me then Melly they said they never asked you to come you just showed up at there door with a baby and they feel bad so they let you in. OMG I was even more Furious by then. I said are you kidding me???? Do you really think am that stupied to travel with a kid with out them knowing am coming???? I would not do that to my Kid and let alone am not that stupied to take a baby some were and them not know am coming. The person I went out there to see had told all the peolpe we talk to I just showed up at there house and I try to tell them It was a girl and they were not tellling the truth to any of you.
This person know  what to say to make belive them. I was the bad person in all this and every one truned on me but that was fine with me in my heart I know the truth and if they did not want to belive me and hear all them lies then so be it the truth always has to come out one way or another.
I will cut the storie short as it would go on for a while so ill close it up with saying that me and her still talked but it was here and then but always would drop a message to one another. Over time she was sending this person so much money it was taking away from her kids and then her county got involved and she had to come to the United States and meet this person. Befor she could come they got scared as the state go involved with all this as it was a lot of money she had sent to that person in that womens name as the person lost there walet or would make some thing up. any way they got scared and told her my best friend that they were really a girl but she was so in love with this person she had to see for her self, This person called me crying and I was like what do you have to say to me look at all you have done and samed my name and all they would do is cry and say they were sorry and that they told my Best friend but she would not belive it. I just hung up as they should have told the truth in the fisrt place.
I get a call from her not long after that and I tell her about the phone call from that person and she said yeah they told me and I could says is well what are you going to do and she said am going there Melly.
Make it short she come to the United states and stayed for 3 mons but she called me crying asking if she could come here to my home and said she should have belived me and I was her best friend she should have never douted me about it.
I told it her it was fine and I would pick her up. I know your most likely thinking why would you do that? Well friends are for ever man or women come and go and she need me and I need to be there for her. I know exactly what she was going throw. I was there and I was in her shoes but it was even more harder for her as she was in a country with no family or any one here to help her. It had maked are friendship stronger and we be come closer.
It took a lot for her and me to get through all this and deal with what had happen with us and need to say we do not play that on line game any more due to all the things that had happen on there. We do not go a day with out talking now or at lest sending one another a message  to see how things are going.
I also would like to add her I was saving money to go out there to see her for 2 weeks but my mom haf fallen really ill and I need to use that money to go home. When I went home my mom was in icu and they let her come home as she did not want to be in the hospital any more. She passed away aday later it was so hard for me and I was so lost I would not even talk to any one not even her and it scared her so much. But I had saved up money to go there and had been saving for months and it was hard as I did not make a lot of money.
I would really love to go out there to see her for my birthday and stay a week or 2 to spend it with her. Inever been outside of the us and I would like to see what its like and maybe Ill learn some thing that I can use along the way to help me better my self. sorry for the long story again thank you.