I have spent my whole life caring for others, family , Kids , and friends. I have been an emptinester for 8 years . 3 years ago I was engaged to be married and ended up in a dangerous domestic violence situation. Had it not been for my middle child that was 19 at the time , I would not be here. I suffered alot of trauma mentally and physical pain after and almost losing my life in that situation I realized I have never done anything that I enjoyed or was passionate about. If  I  was gonna travel once in my life, I'd love to visit Italy. What I went through made me realize life is short and you may not see tomorrow so do what you can now while your alive. Ready to step out of my comfort Zone. This is my main bucket list for 2026.