Hello, thank you for reading. 

I am Jay, I am soon to be 45 and I have two children of 16 and 10. 

Don't worry, this isn't a sob story but at the end of the day, I am here for help. 

Six months ago, my childrens mother left for another fella and the reason was that I had given up my career in order to retrain and of course, finances took a tumble. I didn't realise she was going to leave because of it but hey ho. 

Anyway, when she left, my new career to a hit because I couldn't focus and had to look after myself and the kids and couldn't do it all. She refuses to pay maintenance ya de ya! 

I don't own my home so I started thinking about travel and then it got to be quite a daily plan for me..... I am desperate to take my kids away to give them the adventure of their lives but obviously money and all that. 

I Still have a few things I can sell but I will need to pay off a few small debts and get my car in order. I am studying TEFL so that I could potentially get work teaching but I am expeirenced in a lot and will work anywhere to keep this adventure alive. 

I need help getting started and I know it is a big ask but if anyone wants or can help, I will be eternally grateful. 

Thank you