Am just a regular person, am a husband a father ,I work 9 to 5 job as care assistant to the old and vulnerable community which is the best part of my life taking care of those that need support, in line with my job I have a family that requires me to support them but the thing as man you will never have it 100% if you give your family time it might mean they end up lacking in resources (money) if you sacrifice to give them the resources then you end missing on time am torn between the two more so now that I have a child wth health problems whom I cant be with since am working abroad and my family is far away and the little I make I send to them to seek medical attention I can't afford a plane ticket and hospital bills are draining me I feel sorry for my wife and my kids for missing out on this particular moment but that's how things are I wish to find away and believe I will.