About Me
I haven’t been to a doctor’s or dentist’s office in over seven years. I have kidney problems and haven’t been checked out in a very long time. Trying to pay the rent and bills is all I have time for. I started falling behind when my father started having issues with his health and could no longer work. I moved back in with my parents to take care of them. I put aside my education, social life, goals, and health. I love my parents very much; they are my best friends. My focus was getting them back on their feet! My siblings couldn’t do it because of their job situation, and they have kids. I don’t have kids and I found a job from home. I was the only one willing to be his 24/7 caretaker. It was a huge rollercoaster!! I was so busy fixing their financial and health problems. Every day was full of chores, long phone calls, doctor’s visits. Things started to get difficult when my dad started losing mobility. I physically had to lift him up and my health started to take a huge toll. I could not have a 9-5 job or leave the house. I had no option but to work from home while taking care of him. My father died unexpectedly, and I was not prepared. My mother moved in with my sister and I was left to fend for myself. I had lost touch with all my friends. I had no roommates in mind. My depression and anxiety have gotten bad. I have started racking up credit cards and loans to get the rent and bills paid. I work every second of the day!! I forgotten what it's like to have any fun. I would love to travel but I would be happy with just taking a small road trip to the beach or park to have a picnic. I appreciate you taking the time to read my story.