My name is Melvin I'm a father of two grandfather of two soon to be 55 September 21st my birthday I would love to be married by that time hopefully even though it's next month I've been just existing and not living my life has not been the best a lot of tragedies in it I lost my son my dad my mom and my sister I lost my sister in 2020 and my mom in 2021 I came home to take care of my mom I watched her decline she went from running around with my grandsons to not being able to sit up I would feed her everyday because if I didn't she wouldn't eat I was in Kenya with my mom went into depression and got sick Me and my brother were unaware that she was not going to her doctor's visits or taking her medication it's been really rough I haven't been able to go back to Kenya sense my car was totaled in an accident I had to get another car which recently got repossessed I've been very sick myself but I'm getting better I had COVID-19 twice when it rains it pours it seems like every time I turn around it's something I want to get back to my fiance and get married we both love each other very much sometimes I feel like we'll never see each other again but through the graces of God I pray for him to bless he makes all things possible I think each and every one of you Even if you can't help me but we just helping people who are in need God bless you all You know sometimes you're saving lives and you don't even know it God bless you for that